Unlike
Obama's belief that more guns laws governing law abiding, God fearing gun
owners, will stop mass murders, most Americans know there is no cure to crazy
loons seeking fame through killing innocent people. In fact, it's Obama's
liberals and the social justice nonsense that has given empowerment to those
unwilling to take personal responsibility for their own plight in life.
This punk
has the same modus operandi as many others before him. He was a social misfit,
had Asperger's syndrome, came from broken home and was suffering the same
scourge all too common in America's liberal counter culture, entitlement, also
known as, selfish me-ism relevancy.
The prelude
to his rampage was not evident to those that knew him. His eccentric view of
himself and the world was not enough to expect people who casually saw him, to
suspect him capable of this sudden act of devilish mass murder. These slimy souls
live with two faces, the outward presentation that appears harmless and the
inner demonic face that seeks attention and retribution if their desires are
not met.
Is there any
curative to these satanic fame seekers? Is there a clue to their sociopathic illness?
Does society have the right to strip them of their constitutional rights based
only on suspicion that they might commit a crime of this nature? Would refusing
to sell them a legal gun thwart their depraved plans of mass murder/suicide?
The answer to all these questions is a resounding, no.
There is
only one thing society can do to stop these events from happening, stop
breeding them.
We are told
not to feed wild bears, why? Because it creates three reflexes to this apex
predator. One, the bear loses fear of humans, two, it becomes reliant on a free
food source and three, it then bites not only the human hand that fed it, but
every human hand it comes across. Feeding that bear conditions it to feel
entitled to a meal when it approaches any human, and if you don't feed it, then
you become the food.
Pampering
the bear creates a man-eater. Pampering our kids creates spoiled disaffected
pleasure seeking youth that struggles to accept disappointment and is ill
prepared to accept responsibility for their own shortcomings. In essence, they
blame society if they can't make friends, blame teachers if they can't learn,
blame women if they can't get a date, blame the world for their lack of
happiness.
Our modern
atheistic society has re-invented community, re-invented family, re-invented
marriage and most importantly re-invented individualism. Most youth today
understand individualism to mean, self- expression and the freedom to be
different. Nose rings, tattoos and exotic hair-dos are forms of that age old need
for youth to distinguish themselves from a societal crowd and say "look at
me, I am different."
There is
nothing wrong with the freedom to be different, and or unique self-expression
but, it is only half of the definition of individuality. The problem lies
underneath the hair and the tattoos for some of our youth, that are not taught
the other half of the definition of individualism, which is self-reliance and
personal accountability.
If Mummy and
Daddy are paying for your tats, piercings, haircuts and or subsidizing your
eclectic self-expression by allowing you to live at home rent free, then guess
what, you are flunking the crucial part of individualism; self-reliance.
In fact,
personal accountability in your heart, mind and soul is the measure of a true
individual with or without any outward appearances that might measure you in a
crowd. Not conforming to society's unwritten dress code doesn't mean one should
abandon all conformity. You are not an individual unless you conform to a moral
set a values exacted by inner accountability, in which you understand that the
blame as equally as the praise rests on you alone. That accusatory finger of
failure should always start waving at oneself first, and foremost, before
anyone or anything else is blamed.
Therefore
the message of entitlement is equivalent to feeding the wild bears. Parents
need to be teaching their children gratefulness for being alive, not prizes or
privileges just because they grow another inch taller and another year older.
Parents need to intercede and require their children face accountability and
responsive introspection when they do
the wrong thing and want to blame everything but their own willful lack of
self-control.
Parents need
to not only set a strong moral example but to instill a sense of responsibility
in their children's lives by requiring chores, volunteerism and expectations of
more and more self reliance as a child matures. It is important to teach
children that adults don't need money, fame or praise from society, to be a whole,
healthy and happy individual.
Helicopter
parents create childish adults. Parents that parent out of guilt and never want
their children to grow up, don't realize that by clipping their child's adult
wings they make them ill prepared to face a challenging world, which not only
perpetuates their failure to mature, but also damages their self-esteem.
It isn't
tough love, it is rather true love, when parents selflessly raise their
children to take moral accountability, (no age too young) to act with respect
for self and others, to not blame others for their own inadequacies, giving
privileges only when a child demonstrates responsible actions and always
encouraging them to fly on their own.
Will this
stop all the mass murderers? No, but given the singular similarity of signature
presented by these self-absorbed sadists, whom all have the same thing in
common; blaming society for their own inability to find happiness, we can
reduce their numbers.
The recipe
for a peaceful society has not evolved or changed in eons, nor will it ever
change no matter what modern technology and ideas are forced into the mix, the
ingredients are still faith, family, charity, love and personal accountability.
Time to stop feeding the bears and breeding selfish sadists.
